Thursday, September 11, 2014

Fear in Your Big Girl Pants


The Glitter Globe




The only thing scarier than stepping into the arena, is never stepping inside.


Imagine this scenario. The camera zooms in on a death bed scene. A wasted waif clutches onto sheets with skeletal fingers and whispers profound last words. Oh, thank God I never wrote the book! What if someone hadn’t liked it?


Well, thank God I drive a time travel jeep! Because I’m going to drag your aching bones right out of that bed and take you right back in time to today where I will stuff your yet-wasted hiney into the chair and duct tape your hands to the keyboard if necessary. Start writing. I’ll talk.


Here’s the deal. Not everyone will like your book. Not even if you’re a best-selling novelist will everyone like your book. Does everyone like The Bible? No, they do not. Does everyone like A Tale of Two Cities? The Hobbit? Harry Potter? No, they don’t. We’re people and we’re not always in a cooperative mood! So what? It’s time to cope, deal, tug on those big girl (or big boy) pants and get to whatever it is you’re supposed to be doing in life.


Like the skydivers say, Shut Up and Jump.


What’s going to happen if you do write a book? You’re going to work really hard to finish it. After that you’re going to work really hard to get it edited properly. After that you’re going to get someone else to edit it even more properly, and it will be hard, and it will hurt, but when it is finished you will find peace, for about sixty seconds, because then you will have to get it published and market it—but don’t change the subject.


After you someday get all that work done, you will drag yourself on bloody knees to look at your book reviews. Guess what? Not everyone will like it. Know what? It doesn’t freaking matter. If you want to be petted get a massage. You’re just going to have to write another book anyway. That’s what you do, writer. You write. What if no one likes your book? Now that’s a legitimate fear, but if that happens you didn’t do your job, writer. This is how you write a book so that doesn’t happen. Are you ready for it?


Write a book that you love. Write a book that you enjoy. I don’t give a flying flip what the market says. Write for yourself.


If you do that I promise not everyone will dislike it. You won’t. And if you love it, someone else will too—provided you had the dang thing edited properly.


See, writing isn’t impossible! It’s just freaking hard is all!
S. R. Karfelt



This message was brought to you by my muse. She is a warrior and a butt-kicking ninja (it’s a thing). On one of my next posts I’ll tell you how to Suck It Up, Big Boy, and deal with reviews that try to rip your heart out. You might want to bring a bottle of Armor All for your backside for that post. 


In the meantime, gladiator, tell me why you’re still afraid to step into the arena, because when my muse isn’t kicking bottoms, I’m happy to offer a hand up. You can do hard stuff, didn’t anyone ever tell you that? 




7 comments:

  1. In a nutshell, It's the fear of being misunderstood. It's so painful and traumatic for me to be misunderstood that I often prefer to just hide away all hermit like and let the world pass me by.

    More on that in my own posts about fear though.

    I wish my Muse came with Armor All and Duct Tape. ^_^

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  2. I'll loan you my muse, she has the stuff on automatic reorder. Please post a link to your post about fear in these comments?

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  3. My post on FACING FEAR:

    http://readwritemuse.com/facing-fear-in-the-muses-mirror/

    And my post on FIGHTING FEAR:

    http://readwritemuse.com/fighting-fear-in-the-muses-mirror/

    MAYBE, just maybe I can slay the beast with that sword you have. May I borrow it? It looks like it would be much more efficient than my bloody spoon! ;)

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  4. Oh I love this so much I can't even say.

    I love this SO FRIGGIN MUCH.

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  5. Isn't that an awesome sword, Donna? Yes, you may borrow it any time. Thanks for leaving the links to your posts! These are excellent!

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  6. Hello! Great post! I really enjoyed reading it. It's very insightful and encouraging. Loved it, actually. :)

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  7. Thanks for stopping in, Vashti! Every now and then I have to shout about slaying fear because I hate to see it get the better of anybody!

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